Retirement, moving, midlife crisis, health matters, and kids leaving home can have impact on a relationship. Further, when life changes for one person and not the other, there can be a sense you are suddenly living different lives. Even if you both experience the change, you might feel differently about it. Judgements and conflict can come into play, and you can drift apart. It’s very common that one spouse will blame the other for the change. In couples therapy you can voice your opinions about the change in a helpful and constructive way. Montriel will facilitate a safe space and help you dive deep into asking the important questions about what is really going on. This will lead to new perspectives and ways to forge forward that you just couldn’t see on your own.