When an affair happens, the betrayed and the betrayer are affected. The good news is that healing can happen even though trust has been broken. When both are willing to roll up their sleeves and be patient as the betrayed partner works through the loss of innocence and trust, then rebonding will happen. You’ll learn to accept that the relationship as it was is over but a new and deeper love can be born. Both will learn to love in a new and empowered way. With time and commitment deep transition can occur and the the marriage, as impossible as it may seem can thrive again.